A righteous Salafee woman is not…

Reference: http://www.bazmool.com/articles/المرأة-الصالحة-السلفية

The righteous Salafee woman…

– It is not a condition that she has to know the various groups and parties

– It is not a condition that she has to repeat the statements and phrases of the scholars of the Salaf

– It is not necessary that she has to know the Jarh (criticism) of so-and-so

– It is not a condition that she has to know the Salafi scholars

– It is not a condition that she has to know the prevalent affairs

– It is not a condition that she has to fast the Days of the Full Moon, nor every Monday and Thursday

– Neither does she have to establish the night prayer every night

* It is enough for her…

– To be diligent upon the five daily prayer

– Fast Ramadhaan

– To look after herself and her husband, take care of her house and her child

– Her house is her kingdom, her husband is her guardian and her children are her flock

* The Messenger (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) did not mention except:

– That she should be affectionate and kindhearted towards her child, guard [the honour] of her husband and also his property

– She combines this with fulfilling the right of her Lord

* Clarification:

The matters which I have mentioned as “it is not a condition”

– If she has this in her then it is better

– However I have seen Ghuluww (exceeding of limits) by some of the youth when they seek these characteristics from a woman when they desire to marry her

– I have also seen some women exaggerate when asking about this matters, wanting to delve into them too deeply

I therefore explained the basis of what should be sought in a woman, that she should be a righteous Salafi woman, without the need for different conditions

The knowledge that she is actually in need of is what is specific to her femininity and womanhood – because she is a woman.

Any thing more than this, her husband should teach her, and she follows her husband in this – because he is her guardian and the responsibility to guard over her is upon him.

Allaah knows best

المرأة الصالحة السلفية

المرجع: http://www.bazmool.com/articles/المرأة-الصالحة-السلفية

المرأة الصالحة السلفية

ليس شرطا فيها أن تعرف الجماعات والأحزاب .

ولا يشترط فيها أن تكرر كلام علماء السلف وعباراتهم.

ولا يلزم أن تعرف جرح فلان وفلان .

ولا يشترط فيها أن تعرف المشايخ السلفيين.

ولا يشترط أن تعلم ما يدور على الساحة .

ولا يشترط أن تصوم الأيام البيض وكل اثنين وخميس ولا أن تقوم الليل يومياً.

يكفي أن تكون محافظة على الصلوات الخمس وصيام رمضان وأن تحفظ نفسهاوزوجها وتعتني ببيتها وولدها.

وأن يكون بيتها مملكتها، وزوجها أميرها، وأولادها رعيتها.

لم يذكر الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم إلا أن تكون :

 حنونة على ولدها تحفظ زوجها في ذاته وماله، مع قيامها بحق ربها!

المبالغة تنطع وتجاوز للحد، ماذا تريدون من بنات المسلمين أن يكن؟!

* توضيح *

– ما ذكرته صدرته بأنه ليس بشرط.

– فإن قامت الفتاة بهذا فهو فضل

– ثم رأيت غلوا من بعض الشباب في تطلب هذه المواصفات في الفتاة التي يريد أن يتزوج بها.

– ورأيت غلوا في بعض الفتيات يسألن عن هذه الأمور ويردن التعمق فيها.

– فبينت الأصل فيما ينبغي أن يطلب في المرأة وأنها به امرأة صالحة سلفية فلا يشترط كذا وكذا.

– والعلم الذي تحتاجه المرأة هو ما يخص أنوثتها لأنها امرأة.

وما زاد يعلمه الرجل زوجته وهي تتبعه في ذلك لأنه أميرها والقيم عليها.

والله أعلم


He is a graduate of the Islaamic University of Madeenah, having graduated from the Institute of Arabic Language, and later the Faculty of Sharee'ah in 2010. He currently resides in Nelson, Lancashire.

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